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Thousands of college students switch their majors several times before finally selecting a field they feel, in their heart, is right for them. Their decisions may look like whims on the surface, but they could be something much deeper-the belated discovery of their own Core Desires. Most students follow desires that may register only a 60 to 90 on their Core Desire Scale-and as long as there are no barriers, they proceed on their merry way. But once they come to a hurdle, like a lack of interest or too much homework, they reassess their situation or quit. The lucky ones find and pursue their Core Desire until graduation. The others-if they stay on-either change majors again and again, continuing to muddle through and barely pass, or complete a degree that is easy to get or not one they expect to get a job with. Wouldn't it be great if everyone could identify their Core Desires before going to college, or at least within the first year? Just think how much time and money would be saved.
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Learning, or the lack thereof, has a dramatic impact on all areas of life. By focusing on the things you want to learn about, you can enjoy continuous learning.Many students either drop out of college or flunk out because they are studying things that they have little or no interest in. Often students buy into the idea that their parents, friends, relatives, or counselors know what's best for them. Maybe they have been told they should become a doctor because their dad was a doctor. Or maybe their mother has said she'd like an attorney in the family. Most advice from well-meaning people is not necessarily wrong, but it is not applicable, as it doesn't factor in the students' Core Desires.
We are all the same way-we lose interest and don't perform at peak levels if we're not thoroughly engaged. The more interactions you have with others, the more learning experiences you will have, and the more successful you will be in all areas of your life. You'll be happier, too. All this will only happen as a result of learning about your Core Desires.
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If you are wanting to develop a depth of trust with your children that paves the way for building a strong self-esteem and sense of self, I believe starting with a “safe place” is a great place to start!
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As the economy slowed in 2009 in some sectors business and vacation travel was down. How did industry and hotels respond? Some of the larger hotels had the advantage of conferences, meeting conventions and connections to stay successful. They also bolstered their food quality and service with exposure through TV, radio and other types of media. They portraited their best chefs and award winning service. Not every hotel could do this with great exposure but it was a good start.
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When I was faced with some huge debts in the early 1990s, it was widely reported that I was finished, done for, gone. Looking at the numbers alone made that seem clear to the media. However, I never believed I was finished. I simply saw that situation as a problem I had to solve and went about doing that. I'm not saying it was easy, because it wasn't. It was a big problem. But I refused to give in to fear or to believe what was being said about my so-called demise. I came back to become more successful than I ever was, and that's why I believe business is very much about problem solving. If you can learn to deal with and solve problems, you will have a much bigger margin for success.
Do not allow fear to settle into place in any part of your life. It is a defeating attitude and a negative emotion. Recognize and zap it immediately. Replace it with a problem-solving attitude, faith in yourself, and hard work. Put that formula into working order for yourself and you'll be dealing from a position of power, not fear. That's winning.
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Recently, an interviewer asked me what my greatest fears were. I said I didn't have any. He seemed surprised, but this is how I see it: If you label something as a fear, then it creates fear when sometimes it's not a fear but a concern. For example, I know just as well as everyone else that New York City experienced a major terrorist attack and the thought of that is a concern for all of us,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because it affects all of us. It's happened in many places, so it's a worldwide concern. But if we let it become a firmly rooted fear, the terrorists will have won.
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There are many non cash incentives that have worked for my teams over the years. The best one was a pat on the back saying “well done and thanks for all your hard work.” You will be surprised how well that works if you haven’t already tried it. Off course it has to be deserved not just said for the sake of it. Another one is sitting down with your team at one of your regular sales meetings and ask them what motivates them and what kinds of bonuses they would like to receive for reaching their targets. I can guarantee that most will say they don’t want a cash bonus. When I did this with my team once, the list they cam up with was awesome. It included the following: having their birthdays off (paid off course),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], gift vouchers from a large department store or boutique stores of their choice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], movie tickets or gold class tickets,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a weekend away,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], luxury hire car for the weekend, hot air ballooning, helicopter rides. The list was only limited by their imaginations. These are experiences they got to enjoy and remember for awhile where as paying a bill with their hard earned bonus,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], was a bit of a let down. Why not let every team member set their own bonus to work towards. As a manager you need to motivate people and who knows what motivates people better than those people themselves?
Every sales person I have ever met wants to make as much money as possible with their time in the company. After all, that’s what they’re there for. To make money for themselves as well as for the company. It’s a give and take role.
Over the years as I have stated in earlier posts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I have worked for many companies. Some only had cash bonuses while others only had non cash bonuses. I can tell you that cash worked for me at the time. I managed to save a deposit for a house in only six months with the bonus I earned when we reached our budget every month. The draw back off course was that in this country anyway,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a cash bonus gets taxed. Depending on the tax rate, you would be lucky to walk away with 75% or sometimes just over half of the bonus paid. In effect, you are sharing your hard earned bonus with the tax man. Hardly an incentive then! Cash can be great but it’s not something you can look back on and remember. Most sales people will tell you that they spend their cash bonuses on bills,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], nights out or on something they use and forget. So, you as the manager are responsible for your staff’s motivation. What are some other ways to motivate sales people?
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For you to be an effective manager in a sales or non sales environment means hitting targets or budgets. To do that you need motivated people. To motivate people, they need to know what’s in it for them. For most,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], their employment package is not enough, it’s a starting point. Commissions are great,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but if you go that extra mile for you team,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will earn their respect and they will work hard to reach your targets which in turn will put you in good stead with management above you. It’s a win win scenario. Have that meeting with your team ASAP.
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Try to be conscious of your uncomfortable feelings. Awareness is the first step. You may want to mention your uncomfortable feelings to a friend – talking about it will help you feel better. I like to say a little prayer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], asking for help when I am feeling vulnerable. Pray to have the feelings removed instead of eating over them. If you think of what you can do to help out at the party you will immediately feel more involved and it will help others get to know you. Most importantly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], remember that what others think of you is not nearly as important as what you think of you. And waking up in the morning feeling good about what you ate the night before will make you feel great!
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Due to these negative traits found in Type A personalities, studies show that they often do not have much in terms of money and hardly have any true friends. The Type A personality feels he needs to keep on moving urgently and without any thought for taking time to relax. There is a need for him to be always on the go probably because he feels that there are still a lot of things lacking.
These hormones will yet trigger the release of other kinds of hormones in another system, often leading to imbalances that will raise blood sugar and blood pressure levels.
As a result of all these behaviors and traits,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], studies have it that Type A personalities are prone to high blood pressure incidences leading to heart attack or stroke. The fast pace by which he carries on with his life triggers his hormonal glands into pumping much adrenaline and cortisol into his system.
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According to researches, Type A persons are generally always in a competitive mode. Often, they are assessed to having a hard time listening to what others are saying. In communicating with others, his character is criticized for always wanting to control the conversations.
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These behaviors often result to self-imposed pressures of wanting to be at the top of everything, in spite of the workload he has already burdened himself with. In view of these, his health is affected in the following ways:
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Ashley is a saver and when she spends, it’s conservatively. She can wait for what she wants, whether it’s something small or large. Ashley has the strong belief that: “I must be responsible about handling my money; it’s limited.” She sees “planning ahead” as a critical part of that task.
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Ashley’s refusal to argue means she can’t become defensive, either. She can’t criticize, attack, blame or use any other tactic that retaliates. A healthy, adult discussion uses clear thinking, sticks to the point, and aims to reach a mutual resolution. That’s what we’re working for here.
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The latest “money” glitch happened when Nick bought a hot tub for the family. He paid cash, so they wouldn’t have any debt from the purchase. (Buying this is okay, he reasoned: Ashley has wanted one for several years, and I have the cash now, so I won’t have to put anything on the credit card. Ashley will be pleased.)
Of course, his reassurances don’t reassure Ashley because they’re based on nothing but “thin air” promises. Maybe Nick will make enough money to cover their bills, but maybe he won’t. She knows that none of us can predict the future; there are too many uncontrollable variables out there. So, for her, Nick’s thinking is like a house of cards always ready to tumble. Nerve-racking.
Nick and Ashley weren’t talking to each other when I came into the room. That’s never a good sign. But, I was hopeful that they’d be talking by the time we were finished.
Nick literally doesn’t “get” why she’s so stressed. He believes he’ll handle it. He reassures himself and Ashley that, “When we need more money, it’ll be there; I can make more by working hard.” As he describes it, “My belief is that I’m like ‘Superman;’ I’ll always come through with a solution.” Of course,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], from her view, he’s not handling it at all.
But, Nick, who owns his own business, couldn’t pay his next month’s payroll. He hadn’t planned ahead because he simply doesn’t think like that. He assumed the money he needed would come in. (Remember that hole in his belief system?) Ashley,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who has been through this up-and-down process for their entire twelve-year marriage was shocked. She thought Nick had corrected his thinking after their last argument.
Now, she’s so beyond discouraged that she’s suffering physical symptoms: alternating panic attacks and depression. This couple has four children under ten years old, so Ashley’s a busy mom, and already stressed with their needs. She doesn’t have the energy to deal with a very old problem she thought was solved. She’s so discouraged with Nick; she’s actually wondered aloud whether or not she married the wrong man.
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Does she love him? Yes, of course, but what does that matter if her daily life is a chronic struggle?
Nick’s obvious lack of money-handling skills. With Nick there’s a lack of relationship skills, as well: Not listening to Ashley; ignoring her.
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Nick doesn’t have any beliefs that are even close to Ashley’s about handling money. He actually has no belief at all about saving or planning ahead for next month or next year (wow,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], his belief system has a hole in it). So, he doesn’t delay buying, whatever he wants even though he doesn’t necessarily need it.
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Expect your partner to have different ideas from yours about how to do daily living and how to do relationships. Since we’re usually drawn to our opposite personality type,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this is often true. If you expect differences, you won’t be negatively surprised. You’ll simply assume that you need to know your partner better, then negotiate and compromise. If both of you understand and accept this idea, you should be okay. Become aware of how Respect acts in everyday living. Among other qualities, respect actually values the other person. Respect listens carefully, wants to be open and join with the other. Takes into account the other’s feelings and, most important of all isn’t defensive. Sometime, we come to adult living without a skill that we need, whether that’s in the practical living area or the relationship area. No need to be defensive about it. Assure yourself that you can succeed by learning the skills you need. Once you do, it’ll feel wonderful and it will promote your intimate relationship. Understand that all of the above processes works in social and work relationships, too. Try them.
Money was our topic (the content) but what we spent most of our time on was how Nick and Ashley behave and talk with each other (their process) about any topic. The reason? Respect, trust and good communication (process) were the core issues here, even though the subject we were talking about was money (content).
Nick’s parents, on the other hand, were over-generous and when Nick ran out of his own money, his parents “bailed him out.” Nick never experienced what it felt like to be broke. He never experienced penalties from overdrawn bank accounts. He didn’t have to deal with angry phone calls from credit card companies. He was shielded from those adult realities until he married at age 30. But, the worst of it was that Nick wasn’t shown how to handle money, plan ahead for purchases, and so on. When he married Ashley, he really didn’t have any money-handling skills.
Nick needs to rethink how he talks to Ashley. If he really values his wife, he’ll not only listen carefully to Ashley’s ideas, he’ll also stop any criticizing and arguing. (Yes, he’ll have to develop more self-discipline.) It’s usual for two people from very different backgrounds to have different opinions about any given subject. The trick is for each person to: Listen thoughtfully. Ask questions to get further understanding. Discuss the topic respectfully (as though you really do value your partner). Negotiate (again, respectfully), and, if necessary: Compromise (each person gives some and each person gets some). Note: This is a cooperative process, not a competitive one. In Nick’s family, talk was competitive. Each person had the goal of “topping” each other. (They’re all really smart people.) But, respectful partnering, whether in intimate, work, or social relationships doesn’t “do” competition. If you really think about it, the words “respect” and “partner” are the opposite of competition; these processes demand cooperation. Nick needs to learn the practical life skill of money handling. How? Any good book on budgeting and short-term, medium-term and long-term financial planning can be bought or rented at the public library. There are many inexpensive courses at local high schools and /or community colleges. Ashley needs assertive skills. In her original family, when each person spoke, others listened. That’s not the case here with Nick. She’ll need to: Increase her ability to stand the stress of the talk. How? Be rested and prepare. Have the important thoughts clear in her mind. Preparing decreases stress.
Set limits. Make it clear to Nick before they talk, that she’ll discuss only one issue at a time. The rest can wait. Then, refuse to budge. This process slows things down, so it lessens anxiety and anger for both people. It insures that each problem gets attention until it’s resolved. So often in heated talk,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], people get off the topic without really knowing they’re doing it. This process decreases the chance that that will happen.
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